Attention is not just the way you care for someone, care is also the care, towards yourself. When you don’t care for yourself, it’s hard to show interest for someone. Interested in someone or a problem does not mean that they must stay close to them wherever they are, not taking their eyes off, not leaving half a step. So, how to express someone’s interest in the right way. Caring for a person doesn’t mean having to tie their feet to you, you can’t give that person the freedom to do what they want. If you always accompany them, or follow them to control their actions, make them feel tired, considering each other as a burden of life. People who are concerned are afraid of feeling tied up, and those who care are always not relaxed because they always turn attention into binding the other person.